Every Choice You Make.

Posted: Wednesday, February 26, 2014 by Unknown in Labels: , , , , ,
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Last week, Tracey and I sat down with our third daughter Kasey and discussed her future. We have gone through this exercise with her older sisters and it’s been a milestone in each of their lives. Since there are a lot of uncertainties in life for a teenager, rather than ask them to decide a particular career path or choose their soul mate, we asked them to describe to us the “30,000 foot” view of what they want their life to look like in 10 to 15 years.

Do they want to be married? If so, what would their ideal spouse be like? Will they have a family and what will that look like? Will they own a home? Go to work every day? Will they be making good money in ten years? Will they travel and where? Do they see themselves going to soccer games to watch their kids on weekends and will they go to church? Will they live in the city, the suburbs, or in the country?

Once we have view of where they want to be, I give them an assignment to put it on paper. To cut out a picture of the home they see themselves in, the spouse they see themselves with and the children as well. Get a picture of the places they dream of traveling to and the things they would like to see.

The final step to this process is the most important of the entire exercise.
As a professional speaker, I have taught for years that there is no joy in settling for less than you deserve and that we are all a product of all the choices we make. I see most people give up what they want most for what they want now and I have taught that there is no shortcuts to success.
With that in mind, we explained to my daughter that EVERY decision she makes, from this point forward, will either take her closer to this reality or further away.
Every friend she chooses.
Every boy she dates.
Every class she takes.
Her work ethic.
Her desire for excellence.
Her character.
Her moral compass.
Every rule she keeps or breaks.
Everything!
Each decision will either get her closer to her Dream Life or further away… Period!

This has been a valuable lesson to my children as well as a great reminder for me.
Every choice and decision that I make either gets me closer to my dreams or further away…. And yours do too!

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